Being "nice" is not a so nice tip when you are trying to have a one night hookup with a girl. Now, don't get me wrong, nice guys can often win girls over gradually, but trying to be too nice, or trying to be someone you're not, that will never work! The guys who try to play the good guy are the ones who don't have confidence in who they really are.
Be nice is one of the worst dating tips I can think of for a guy's dating strategy on real hookup apps! When I heard this, it did make me laugh because it is so wrong!
Believe me. A good man who truly good are naturally good on real hook up apps. They don't have to try to be kind, because they already are. When you try to act in a certain way, you are inconsistent with your inner feelings and true self. The women can see you right through.
Kiss her at the end of the date
It's ok to kiss her at the end of the date, but don’t wait for the date to be over to kiss her. If you have to wait until the end of the date to lock lips with your woman, you're doing something wrong. Women hate it when they date men with stress. They hate stress. They hate embarrassment. These two feelings kill the sexual tension and kill the special moment. Instead of waiting until the end to give her that famous late night kiss, kiss her early and take the pressure off you both.
It's much better when you kiss a woman early in the date. Maybe half an hour or an hour is the best time to kiss her. This way, you can avoid feeling strange or awkward between you and her. You are being not predictable and ineffective. It is spontaneous and successful!
Take her to a movie on the first date
Man, I hate it when people say, "why don't you take her to a movie?" It bothered me so much that I had to scrape the chalkboards at primary school with my fingernails. This has to be the worst dating concept ever! Let's consider this concept for a moment so that I can emphasize the sheer stupidity of the idea.
You meet a woman and date her. She accepted. You say "sweet!" She said, "I know." Well, where can I find a place to get to know this attractive woman and can give me the best chance to prove myself and connect with her and to see if I like her, and maybe possibly form a relationship with her? When you go to the movies, you really have nothing to do but sit still and watch the movie. You basically go through two hours of torture, watching a crappy movie about god knows what, and when it finally ends and the lights come out, you spend almost two boring and awkward hours with a complete stranger! She doesn't know anything about you and finds you less attractive, and just wants to go home and never see you again. that's why the movie was terrible!